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	<title>Comments on: Anti-Social Media: What digital intimacy means for consumers and brands</title>
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		<title>By: What I lost when I found you: Life after social media. &#124; Simon Mainwaring</title>
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		<dc:creator>What I lost when I found you: Life after social media. &#124; Simon Mainwaring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 17:25:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] week&#8217;s post about digital intimacy generated some great debate about how our lives have been changed by social [...]</description>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://simonmainwaring.com/brands/anti-social-media-what-digital-intimacy-means-for-consumers-and-brands/comment-page-1/#comment-100</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 19:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jason,

Thanks for having a read and nice to meet you. I found this images here:
http://imgur.com/tRnNd.png

It was done by Ji lee. Hope all is well Simon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jason,</p>
<p>Thanks for having a read and nice to meet you. I found this images here:<br />
<a href="http://imgur.com/tRnNd.png" rel="nofollow">http://imgur.com/tRnNd.png</a></p>
<p>It was done by Ji lee. Hope all is well Simon</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
		<link>http://simonmainwaring.com/brands/anti-social-media-what-digital-intimacy-means-for-consumers-and-brands/comment-page-1/#comment-994</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 19:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jason,

Thanks for having a read and nice to meet you. I found this images here:
http://imgur.com/tRnNd.png

It was done by Ji lee. Hope all is well Simon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jason,</p>
<p>Thanks for having a read and nice to meet you. I found this images here:<br />
<a href="http://imgur.com/tRnNd.png" rel="nofollow">http://imgur.com/tRnNd.png</a></p>
<p>It was done by Ji lee. Hope all is well Simon</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Edwards</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason Edwards</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 17:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Simon.  This is the first post of yours that I&#039;ve read - great thoughts!  Where did you find that picture?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Simon.  This is the first post of yours that I&#8217;ve read &#8211; great thoughts!  Where did you find that picture?</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Edwards</title>
		<link>http://simonmainwaring.com/brands/anti-social-media-what-digital-intimacy-means-for-consumers-and-brands/comment-page-1/#comment-993</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason Edwards</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2009 17:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Simon.  This is the first post of yours that I&#039;ve read - great thoughts!  Where did you find that picture?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Simon.  This is the first post of yours that I&#8217;ve read &#8211; great thoughts!  Where did you find that picture?</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 18:18:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Craig,

I have to say I agree. As much as I am a devotee of social media and a marketer by trade, what always attracted me about advertising was the power of emotional connection. So while it seems contradictory, one hand I feel the need to protect or at least champion authentic connection while on the other I use social in advertising. Clearly I believe there is a third alternative where tolls like social media are used responsibly by marketers but that is far too infrequent and I risk sounding naive.

I also agree that social media is a necessary evil in one sense as the pace of our lives is so accelerated. Slowing that down is an even more impossible task than keeping social media (in the hands of marketers like me) honest.

Ultimately everyone will filter information as they need to and determine their own level of engagement. I suspect for the next generation the threshold will be much higher than ours. In my book that comes at a price but they won&#039;t know any different. As we further immerse ourselves in the parallel universe of online living, let&#039;s hope marketers stay (relatively) honest, human nature (occasionally) screams for direct experience, and we remember that ultimately its hearts and minds we connect through and not technology.

Thanks and great to be in touch. Simon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Craig,</p>
<p>I have to say I agree. As much as I am a devotee of social media and a marketer by trade, what always attracted me about advertising was the power of emotional connection. So while it seems contradictory, one hand I feel the need to protect or at least champion authentic connection while on the other I use social in advertising. Clearly I believe there is a third alternative where tolls like social media are used responsibly by marketers but that is far too infrequent and I risk sounding naive.</p>
<p>I also agree that social media is a necessary evil in one sense as the pace of our lives is so accelerated. Slowing that down is an even more impossible task than keeping social media (in the hands of marketers like me) honest.</p>
<p>Ultimately everyone will filter information as they need to and determine their own level of engagement. I suspect for the next generation the threshold will be much higher than ours. In my book that comes at a price but they won&#8217;t know any different. As we further immerse ourselves in the parallel universe of online living, let&#8217;s hope marketers stay (relatively) honest, human nature (occasionally) screams for direct experience, and we remember that ultimately its hearts and minds we connect through and not technology.</p>
<p>Thanks and great to be in touch. Simon</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 18:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Craig,

I have to say I agree. As much as I am a devotee of social media and a marketer by trade, what always attracted me about advertising was the power of emotional connection. So while it seems contradictory, one hand I feel the need to protect or at least champion authentic connection while on the other I use social in advertising. Clearly I believe there is a third alternative where tolls like social media are used responsibly by marketers but that is far too infrequent and I risk sounding naive.

I also agree that social media is a necessary evil in one sense as the pace of our lives is so accelerated. Slowing that down is an even more impossible task than keeping social media (in the hands of marketers like me) honest.

Ultimately everyone will filter information as they need to and determine their own level of engagement. I suspect for the next generation the threshold will be much higher than ours. In my book that comes at a price but they won&#039;t know any different. As we further immerse ourselves in the parallel universe of online living, let&#039;s hope marketers stay (relatively) honest, human nature (occasionally) screams for direct experience, and we remember that ultimately its hearts and minds we connect through and not technology.

Thanks and great to be in touch. Simon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Craig,</p>
<p>I have to say I agree. As much as I am a devotee of social media and a marketer by trade, what always attracted me about advertising was the power of emotional connection. So while it seems contradictory, one hand I feel the need to protect or at least champion authentic connection while on the other I use social in advertising. Clearly I believe there is a third alternative where tolls like social media are used responsibly by marketers but that is far too infrequent and I risk sounding naive.</p>
<p>I also agree that social media is a necessary evil in one sense as the pace of our lives is so accelerated. Slowing that down is an even more impossible task than keeping social media (in the hands of marketers like me) honest.</p>
<p>Ultimately everyone will filter information as they need to and determine their own level of engagement. I suspect for the next generation the threshold will be much higher than ours. In my book that comes at a price but they won&#8217;t know any different. As we further immerse ourselves in the parallel universe of online living, let&#8217;s hope marketers stay (relatively) honest, human nature (occasionally) screams for direct experience, and we remember that ultimately its hearts and minds we connect through and not technology.</p>
<p>Thanks and great to be in touch. Simon</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Elimeliah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Elimeliah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 15:38:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent and articulate, very well put and you pose a number of very important questions and scenarios that as marketers and human beings, we all need to take some time to think about. What I feel you failed to mention is the sheer speed at which our world revolves, I am not referring to the axis in which it rotates physically but to the blurring speed in which we are expected to perform our duties and the sheer volume of tasks those duties involve. This is why social media has become so prevailing. It is the only way we are able to eke in some time to have any form of interaction. It allows us to maintain the speed in which we work and to interact at the same time, the very fact that it exists only strengthens the demand for every second of our day. Why go meet at the cafe when you have been IMing all day, why discuss ideas face to face when you have been emailing them back and fourth all day, so on and so fourth... 

We all need to make a conscious effort to force one another to  stop allowing the social networks to be our conduit for interaction and get in front of one another so that we may once again have that human bond in which we have been communicating through for eons. 

However how will that impact the speed and attention that is demanded from us now that we work in this new hyper environment? 

There needs to be a balance of the two, I do not know what that is but perhaps you can help us see what that world looks like?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent and articulate, very well put and you pose a number of very important questions and scenarios that as marketers and human beings, we all need to take some time to think about. What I feel you failed to mention is the sheer speed at which our world revolves, I am not referring to the axis in which it rotates physically but to the blurring speed in which we are expected to perform our duties and the sheer volume of tasks those duties involve. This is why social media has become so prevailing. It is the only way we are able to eke in some time to have any form of interaction. It allows us to maintain the speed in which we work and to interact at the same time, the very fact that it exists only strengthens the demand for every second of our day. Why go meet at the cafe when you have been IMing all day, why discuss ideas face to face when you have been emailing them back and fourth all day, so on and so fourth&#8230; </p>
<p>We all need to make a conscious effort to force one another to  stop allowing the social networks to be our conduit for interaction and get in front of one another so that we may once again have that human bond in which we have been communicating through for eons. </p>
<p>However how will that impact the speed and attention that is demanded from us now that we work in this new hyper environment? </p>
<p>There needs to be a balance of the two, I do not know what that is but perhaps you can help us see what that world looks like?</p>
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		<title>By: Craig Elimeliah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig Elimeliah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 15:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent and articulate, very well put and you pose a number of very important questions and scenarios that as marketers and human beings, we all need to take some time to think about. What I feel you failed to mention is the sheer speed at which our world revolves, I am not referring to the axis in which it rotates physically but to the blurring speed in which we are expected to perform our duties and the sheer volume of tasks those duties involve. This is why social media has become so prevailing. It is the only way we are able to eke in some time to have any form of interaction. It allows us to maintain the speed in which we work and to interact at the same time, the very fact that it exists only strengthens the demand for every second of our day. Why go meet at the cafe when you have been IMing all day, why discuss ideas face to face when you have been emailing them back and fourth all day, so on and so fourth... 

We all need to make a conscious effort to force one another to  stop allowing the social networks to be our conduit for interaction and get in front of one another so that we may once again have that human bond in which we have been communicating through for eons. 

However how will that impact the speed and attention that is demanded from us now that we work in this new hyper environment? 

There needs to be a balance of the two, I do not know what that is but perhaps you can help us see what that world looks like?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent and articulate, very well put and you pose a number of very important questions and scenarios that as marketers and human beings, we all need to take some time to think about. What I feel you failed to mention is the sheer speed at which our world revolves, I am not referring to the axis in which it rotates physically but to the blurring speed in which we are expected to perform our duties and the sheer volume of tasks those duties involve. This is why social media has become so prevailing. It is the only way we are able to eke in some time to have any form of interaction. It allows us to maintain the speed in which we work and to interact at the same time, the very fact that it exists only strengthens the demand for every second of our day. Why go meet at the cafe when you have been IMing all day, why discuss ideas face to face when you have been emailing them back and fourth all day, so on and so fourth&#8230; </p>
<p>We all need to make a conscious effort to force one another to  stop allowing the social networks to be our conduit for interaction and get in front of one another so that we may once again have that human bond in which we have been communicating through for eons. </p>
<p>However how will that impact the speed and attention that is demanded from us now that we work in this new hyper environment? </p>
<p>There needs to be a balance of the two, I do not know what that is but perhaps you can help us see what that world looks like?</p>
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		<title>By: admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 04:45:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Dustin,

It&#039;s funny how the marketer in me clashes with the parent in me raising the same concerns. As if digital intimacy wasn&#039;t cause for concern enough, the way the next generation multi-task their communication is startling to me (just as you described with your son). To me, while this is obviously the new speed of communication and seems perfectly natural to them, it seems the relatives remoteness of digital intimacy (compared to face time) is exacerbated by the fact its happening on several fronts all at once. We should not be surprise if we lose eye contact with the next generation even during face time. I already watch my daughters friends talking to each other while playing a game on a computer while texting at the same time. What it all means for our quality of life is hard to say, and its almost impossible to judge another&#039;s experience of life, but looking at life through a screen (big small or mobile) does seem one step removed from the innate appeal of direct experience. Let&#039;s hope the quality of their experience expands with their reach, and we all have nothing to worry about. I also have great faith in human nature&#039;s ability to find balance as heather mentioned above. Great chatting and hope all is well, Simon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Dustin,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s funny how the marketer in me clashes with the parent in me raising the same concerns. As if digital intimacy wasn&#8217;t cause for concern enough, the way the next generation multi-task their communication is startling to me (just as you described with your son). To me, while this is obviously the new speed of communication and seems perfectly natural to them, it seems the relatives remoteness of digital intimacy (compared to face time) is exacerbated by the fact its happening on several fronts all at once. We should not be surprise if we lose eye contact with the next generation even during face time. I already watch my daughters friends talking to each other while playing a game on a computer while texting at the same time. What it all means for our quality of life is hard to say, and its almost impossible to judge another&#8217;s experience of life, but looking at life through a screen (big small or mobile) does seem one step removed from the innate appeal of direct experience. Let&#8217;s hope the quality of their experience expands with their reach, and we all have nothing to worry about. I also have great faith in human nature&#8217;s ability to find balance as heather mentioned above. Great chatting and hope all is well, Simon</p>
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