Social media explained by a 9-year-old in one sentence

by Simon on July 4, 2010 · View Comments

in Consumers, Social media

Not long ago I took my daughters to the Portland Children’s Museum – wonderful place – and I couldn’t help but notice this quote written on the wall above the clay making room. To me it so effectively distilled the essence of social media that so I wanted to share it.

The quote reads:

When I make my art about a flower it is not showing you who the flower is, but to tell you about me.

From the mouth of babes! There are several powerful thoughts here communicated in one simple and authentic statement. Here’s what I see that relates to the practice of social media:

1. People reveal themselves through their interests, concerns and interaction.

2. We must listen to what we’re being told about the speaker, not just to what he or she is saying. (More on corporate listening here.)

3. We should respond in a way that lets the speaker know we see them, not just what they said.

As marketers we would do a darn fine job if we managed to pull off all three consistently. When we engage using 1-3, we automatically establish an emotional connection through which we can create a brand advocate. It’s so easy to forget that all the information, words, ideas, images and, yes, drivvle, we share are really just different attempts at reaching out to each other. In fact, here’s a few great examples of brands using it well during the World Cup in a post by Brian Solis.

As with most things in life, this simple approach to social media is far harder to do. But lucky for us, every so often a child like Elyssa comes along to help us.

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  • "1. People reveal themselves through their interests, concerns and interaction."

    Totally agree and, in fact, it reminds me of some things going on at work and also stuff I've seen on Twitter lately. To take this a bit off topic (cause that's what I do! :-D), this statement is much bigger than the world of marketing or social media. This is important in the course of your daily life. I sometimes think I'm keeping things to myself, but that stuff comes out unintentionally and indirectly through everything I say and do. If folks pay attention, they'll be able to figure me out to some degree, even when I don't want them to!

    To bring it back to marketing, it absolutely will help you create brand advocates. This actually happened to me with a local restaurant recently, where I connected with them first in-person and then through Twitter and Foursquare. I've taken more new people there than any other place. Treating me like I'm a valued customer and giving me free stuff (like dessert!) has earned them lots of my money. Glad to spend it at a place like that, though. :)
  • Thanks and its so true Jodi. social media is truly the first principles of basic communication revisited through technology. We are simply relearning what what we already know. And you say, it works so well. thanks, Simon
  • Spectacular insight and a wonderful quote!
  • Thanks, Jeff. I thought it was great too.
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